
| Location | Bearley,nr Stratford Upon Avon |
| Age | 28 years |
| Cause of Death | In the Line of Duty |
| Date of Birth | 16/12/1977 |
| Date of Death | 06/09/2006 |
| Visitors | 33,944 since 08/09/2006 |
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Born 16th DEC 1977 - Died 6th SEPT 2006
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PAUL & ANARE DRAIVA ( OUR HERO'S )
were friends doing a job they both loved trying to make this world a safer place for everyone.
PLEASE CAN YOU VISIT ANARE'S SITE AS HE HAS NO FAMILY OVER HERE
1 ROYAL IRISH REGIMENT
Paul thought the world of his family, his mum Violet, dad Michael , brother Simon, sisters Jackie &
Sue and his nieces.
Paul lived his dream of wanting to be in the Army, and joined the Royal Irish Regiment. He loved
army life and thought he was really helping to make a difference and volunteered to go to
Afghanistan to help the people there, he never thought of the danger he was putting himself in. Paul
was that type of person always thinking of other people first.
Paul was seriously injured on Friday 1st september in a mortar attack on the base at Musa Qala in
the Helmand province, his friend Dee who was with him was killed in the attack. Paul was flown to
Oman hospital with serious head and arm injuries. Pauls mum and stepdad was flown out to be with
him. Paul fought so hard to stay with us, but unfortunately Pauls wounds were so severe he couldnt
be stabalised. Paul sadly passed away on Wednesday 6th September 2006 which has devastated his
family and friends but they are very proud of Paul he is their hero.
His commanding officer Lt-col Michael Mcgovern said L/cpl Muirhead was an experienced soldier who
had served on OP Telic 1, the liberation of Iraq, in Nothern Ireland,and most recently a six month
tour of Baghdad and Southern Iraq .
L/cpl Muirhead was a calm , confident and determined member of the patrols platoon. A quiet exterior
belied a character who was renowned for looking after the younger less experienced soldiers.He was
widely respected across the Battalion.
The battalion is deeply saddened at the loss of two soldiers in this incident, both killed as a
result of enemy action .Our thoughts and prayers are of course with their families and friends at
this terrible time.
Col Mcgovern said he had spoken to troops in Afghanistan and their moral remained high . They were
determined to " get on with the job " and ensure that the loss of their friends and comrades would
not be in vain.
Paul you were a very special loving son brother uncle and friend.
We just want to say how much we all love and miss you , and the pain of losing you hurts so bad, we
will always be thinking of you and you are always in our hearts. Paul you have made us so proud, we
miss and love you so much. xxxxxxxx
PAUL OUR MUCH LOVED SON ,BROTHER AND UNCLE IS MISSED SO MUCH THERE IS NOT THE WORDS TO EXPLAIN HOW
WE FEEL.
OUR FAMILY ARE VERY GREATFUL TO EVERYONE WHO HAS LEFT MESSAGES ON PAULS SITE. I JUST WANT TO
THANK EVERYONE FOR THEIR KINDNESS.
VIOLET (PAULS MUM )
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P UT A POPPY ON YOUR LAPEL
O VER YOUR HEART - WEAR IT WELL
P LEASE REMEMBER THOSE WHO DIED
P RAY FOR THOSE THEY LEFT BEHIND
I N OUR HEARTS THEY SHALL REMAIN
E NGLAND’S BRAVEST OF THE BRAVE
S HOW YOUR PRIDE TODAY
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"I Can't Cry Hard Enough" by The Williams Brothers.
I'm gonna live my life
Like every day's the last
Without a simple goodbye
It all goes by so fast.
And now that you're gone
I can't cry hard enough
No, I can't cry hard enough
For you to hear me now.
Gonna open my eyes
And see for the first time
I've let go of you like
A child letting go of his kite.
There it goes
Up in the sky
There it goes
Beyond the clouds
For no reason why.
I can't cry hard enough
No, I can't cry hard enough
For you to hear me now.
Gonna look back in vain
And see you standing there
When all that remains
Is just an empty chair.
And now that you're gone
I can't cry hard enough
No, I can't cry hard enough
For you to hear me now.
There it goes
Up in the sky
There it goes
Beyond the clouds
For no reason why.
I can't cry hard enough
No, I can't cry hard enough
For you to hear me now.
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Candles in the Night
Candles flame in darkness,
Flicker, steadily glow,
Bringing light from shadows
And help to soothe me so.
My son, like the candles,
Gave my life true light,
I use the candle's beacon
To connect us in the night.
As I light the candles,
My wish and my request
Is that he'll see my signal
And know my love's expressed.
As his light joins my lights,
Our worlds touch and flame.
As I snuff out the candles,
I softly say his name.
By Genesse Bourdeau Gentry
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Missing You
I just can't believe it
The sun still sets and rises.
The moon and stars still shine.
The flowers still bloom,
The birds still sing.
I expected a change in everything...
I just can't believe it.
It still gets dark and light.
The ocean still has waves,
The rain still rains,
The wind still blows.
Is it because they do not know?
I just can't believe it.
I thought the world would stop,
When in the house I found
An empty chair,
A missing smile.
I thought it would stop
For just a while.
I just can't believe it....
Unknown author
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WAR MEMORIAL
Hi son well tomorrow in front of your family and friends your name is at long last going to be unveiled on the towns war memorial. It is going to be a very proud time for everyone who fought to get your name there but also a lot of sad emotions because we all would give everything just to have you with us still.
Paul son im sure you know how much your missed and loved by everyone. My heart belongs to you my brave caring wonderful son xxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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~~ The Ascending ~~
(by Kahlil Gibran)
I have passed a mountain peak and my soul is soaring in the
Firmament of complete and unbound freedom;
I am far, far away, my companions, and the clouds are
Hiding the hills from my eyes.
The valleys are becoming flooded with an ocean of silence, and the
Hands of oblivion are engulfing the roads and the houses;
The prairies and fields are disappearing behind a white specter
That looks like the spring cloud, yellow as the candlelight
And red as the twilight.
The songs of the waves and the humans of the streams
Are scattered, and the voices of the throngs reduced to silence;
And I can hear naught but the music of Eternity
In exact harmony with the spirit's desires.
I am cloaked in full whiteness;
I am in comfort; I am in peace.
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THINKING OF YOU PAUL AND YOUR DEAR MUM ; ON THIS YOUR ANGEL ANNIVERSARY ;
( A TRUE HERO )
GOD BLESS DARLING ;
LOVE AS ALWAYS ALISON
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In my thoughts & prayers
Forgive Me Lord If I Still Weep
For My Son I Love So Deep
And Could Not Keep
Perhaps One Day You'll Tell Me Why
You Broke My Heart And Let Him Die
Heartache's In This World Are Many
But Loosing My Son Is Worse Than Any
Your Paul was such a brave young man... we will always remember what he did for our country. Thinking of you Violet on this sad day and wishing you and your family peace. Love Liz, Stuart's mum xx
MORE MESSAGES FROM FRIENDS FOR YOU SON xxx
Lynn Liddell DickinsonRIP Paul xx
Sue Robinson god rest his soul Violet and may you find peace
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Julia Jules Smith my thorts r wiv u violet xxxxxxxxx
Lauren Foster sending you lots and lots of love violet xx (((hugs)))
Smith Marie R.I.P Paul thinking of you and your family violet at this awful time and pauls colleagues and friends xxx
Rose Gentle violet thinking of you all have a big hug x x x
19 hours ago DeleteViolet ClaydonThanks everyone Lauren & Rose you both know yourselves the pain it brings families love to you both xxx
Joy Lawrence Never to be forgotton.. thinking of you violet and family xxx
Sarah Miller RIP Hero Paul ~ Violet, I'm thinking of you, it must be so hard for you I couldn't begin to imagine how it has torn you apart. My thoughts are always with you, especially whenever I hear Paul's song HERO! Take care Violet,Paul would be so proud of you. Sorry don't get to going on GTS much as find it too upsetting, but know that you're often in my thoughts especially whenever the news headlines is about another poor soldier losing their lives. Take care xxxx
Michelle Burgess God Bless Paul xxx Thinking of you and your family Violet xxxx
Sharron Hudson Violet & Family, my heart goes out to you and my thoughts are with you ((((HUGS)))) xxxxx
Denise Williams Rip Paul and love to all your familey Denise xx
Manda Berrymy thoughts r with u violet
Martyn David Gibson My heart goes out to you Violet and all your family for your loss. X
Norman Russell 3 years violet, crazy lots of love to u and the family from the lads in d-coy from the falklands xxx
Shivon Upton 3 years has gone so quick for all of us not grieving but rest assured we all know that it means to you 1095 days and nights of tears memories and pain, always remember that we are always thinking of you Violet and your lovely family RIP PAUL X
Kazz Allison Thinking of you xx
Emma-Louise HarriesViolet. I'm thinking and praying for you today. R.I.P Paul...you are a true hero. Never forgotten. X x x
Deb ♰ DarwoodR.I.P. Paul. God bless xx
Russell Bennett Violet you have my love and support as always. Thinking of you all.xxx
Sharron Thomas Hi Violet, Thinking of you and your family at this sad time. He was a son to be proud of. RIP Paul. God bless all of you xxx
Carol Jones Thinking of you and your family Violet. Xxxxhugsxxxx
Lisa Robinson R.I.P Paul cant believe its 3 years already, your still in our thoughts and sadly missed x Thinking of you Violet & family at this sad time take care xxxx
Jean Wells VIOLET i,am so sorry for you i cant believe the heart ache this must give my thoughts are with you love JEAN
Jeanetta Gray God Bless x x
Jane Reavey God Bless you Violet and your Family.xxxx
Joan Coult god bless you all our thoughts are with you xx
Myrtle Dougherty RIP brave one, love and prayers to you and your family Violet xxxxx
a little tribute true and tender
just to say we will remember xxxxx
Princess Janey GouldMy thoughts are with you and your family Violet and also with your brave son Paul, god bless you! xx
Rodney Hargangod bless u and your family,at a difficult time paul will be proud of u violet R.I.P. MATE
Clare S Spiller Thinking of you all on pauls anniversary all our love x x x x
Nicola Ruecker Love and hugs to you all Violet, from all of us here in sunny Norfolk xxx
SOME MESSAGES FPR YOU SON xx
Karen Bowley Thinking of you and your family Violet , sending you love and hugs.
Paul will always be a hero and will never be forgotton
Kazza B x x x x
Lisa Walker Sending love to you and the family today and always Violet xxx God bless you Paul sweetheart, one of our shining stars so badly missed. Have fun with the boys xxxxxx
Shona Stevenson Thinking of you as always. Watch for the post. Remember memories last forever. From one who knows. All our love Shona and Jim
Rodney Hargan HI VIOLET HOPE EVERYTHING GOES WELL FOR U ON THE DAT SORRY I CANT COME AS U KNOW BUT ONCE I GET BACK I WILL VISIT U AND FAMILY PAUL IS NEVER FORGOTTON R.I.P. MATE
Trevor Coult Violet, i hope today goes well for you,and you dont get to upset,paul was a great lad loved by all who knew him,sorry i cant be there,im registering today at 1500hrs at my new place of work, will still pop up on days of rememberance, take care speedy






























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